How To Use “Tension Loops” To Build Sexual Tension With Women | 99% of Women LOVE This


hey you my name is Marnie and from here
on out I am going to be your very own personal wing girl and it’s my job to
give you the no BS honest truth about what women want versus what they say
they want and I put up new videos every Tuesday so keep an eye out for my videos
I’ve been really trying to tap into basic human psychology to give you
little tactics and tricks you can use with women all with authenticity and
ethically obviously that’s why in this video I’m going to share a super easy
way of talking to women that makes them psychologically addicted to you so that
they can’t help but chase you and hang on to every word you say so keep
watching so this thing that I want to share with you is actually something I
do in every one of my videos and if you watch my videos then this little
psychological tactic has worked on you and don’t worry it’s not manipulative
I’m not slowly hypnotizing you to give me all your
money or do things that you don’t want to do the easy thing I want to share
with you is just a way to frame your conversation so that women remain
interested and engaged in what you have to say and I’m sure you’ve noticed this
thing that I do because I know you’re a smart cookie a few of you have actually
contacted me about it and told me how you spotted it which is amazing and that
I’m a genius for using it so what is this thing that I do and how does it
apply to dating and I’ll give you a hint I’ve been using this principle
throughout this entire video without you even realizing it yes I am
that sneaky so do you give up do you want to know this psychological
principle is actually called open loops or tension loops and it’s where you
intentionally leave cliffhangers throughout your communication to create
tension our minds naturally look to closed loops it wants to find
conclusions to the beginnings of things and it works with just about anything
including getting girls so psychologically addicted to you that
they can’t help but chase you and hang on to every word you say but how do you
use this principle in a day-to-day interaction with a girl is what you’re
thinking it can’t be the same as just you know recording a video right wrong
let me paint you with scenarios you can see exactly what I mean and just a
little note here the example I’m about to give you as an example to use on
younger women but pay attention to the theory behind the example not the actual
example even though it’s a great example you will have to reframe it in a version
that feels right to you and by the way you can totally use this principle
online or through text because it works even better there ok so here is the
example picture I’m out with a girl so the guy or you says you know what I
don’t like about you and you look into her eyes unwavering and then silence you
can cut the tension in the air with a knife and she goes what why well why why
do you hate me and so do you see how the tension loop has created she’s tense you
decide to create even more tension by opening up another tension loop you say
sorry that didn’t come out right you say while you’re chuckling a little bit I
actually don’t like you at all you tell her this time with a giant smirk
plastered on your face and she says well why is she slaps you in the air and
playfully she’s completely entranced by what you’re saying she needs to know why
it actually has nothing to do with you you say to her and she looks almost
relieved but you can still see her eyes wide with anticipation for knowing
what’s going to come out of your mouth next and you create tension by leaving
her hanging and then relieve it by closing the loop so doing this a few
times throughout a night or a texting chain will absolutely make her addicted
to you and she’s going to crave to get you talking because she just wants to
know so you say it’s just that you remind me of somebody that I absolutely
hate this girl who almost ruined my life you’ve seen with a serious tone oh my
god who is this awful girl she says she means to know who her terrible
doppelganger is and you say the reason I don’t like you is because you look
exactly like this girl in second grade who used to beat me and thumb-wrestling
in front my whole class all the time something like that the smirk has found
itself back on your face even bigger this time
and she starts laughing and saying oh my god I thought you really didn’t like me
she cries out you decide to push it even further now that the tension has been
relieved and you say I really don’t like you you say to her and Kenton seriously
and she goes why she’s practically pieing at you to get your attention and
then you say there’s only one way to resolve this done Russell he say to her
with a smirk do you see how the tension mounted and then it was relieved and how
that could get her addicted she wanted to hear from you wanting to hear how you
think and what you have to say good now you don’t have to do this as many times
as this example and if you are with a woman who’s a little older like thirty
plus and they’d stick to one or two tension cycle it’s tops because an older
woman is going to get annoyed by not telling her what’s going on and it won’t
be playful after one or two times but you have to use this at your own
discretion and test it out and just see how far you can push this with practice
using tension loops in your conversation will become easier and easier and make
your conversations more playful and dynamic tension loops are just one of
the hundreds of little psychological tactics you can use in conversation with
women that can help you build attraction and excitement if you want to learn more
psychological principles that will have her brain literally addicted to you so
she can’t help but crave you on a deep level then I have something for you but
I need you to use it wisely because it’s pretty powerful and it has a similar
impact on a woman’s brain that tension loops create and it’s called banter
bantering is the foundation of flirting and it shows confidence social
intelligence and it creates a fun dynamic that women are irresistible
drawn to without banter flirting using tension loops like the example I just
shared is extra difficult or pretty much impossible the interest sets the
groundwork with women and gets their serotonin juices flowing it helps make a
woman more comfortable with you so that they are more open and willing to
transition tomorrow the entering is a skill not everyone is fortunate enough
to have but it is a skill that everyone needs and luckily the skill everybody
can learn that’s why I created the ultimate guide
on how to banter with women because knowing just this one skill can make a
dramatic difference to how women feel about you so if you’re ready to start
having more exciting and attractive conversations with women then you need
to check out this five-minute video I’ve made for you it shows you how throwing a
little banter into your conversation can totally transform your interactions with
women and give you that edge you’ve always wanted it’s a quick 5 minute
video that explains how to hold conversations that naturally build
attraction through playful banter and how an attraction building conversation
should unfold to watch this quick five minute video go to wing girl method calm
slash banter guide and you can watch the video now when you go to this page you
can also get a ton of banter examples you can use as templates for your own
future banter sessions with unbelievably beautiful women guys are already writing
to me every day with success stories since they started using banter to check
out and discover how to communicate with us women in a way that ignites desire
and builds sexual attention go to wing girl method dot com slash banter guide. let me be your wind girl and share all my secrets with you and I’ll see you next


72 Responses

  1. Jason Sharpe

    March 3, 2020 8:00 pm

    Marni, we are very fortunate that you keep your skills, education and your experiences fresh and innovating for myself who is introverted. And this is something you just giveaway for free with these videos. Thank you so much. I am always look forward to your advice. You truly are the last wing girl any man will ever need. ❤️ from home 🇨🇦

  2. Benjamin T Haden

    March 3, 2020 8:20 pm

    Hey Marni, I will tell you what I dislike about you, 😏😏😏 you tell guys to playfully mock women

  3. Michael Anderson

    March 3, 2020 8:29 pm

    Marni, I just watched a video of yours from 9 years ago. Your raw sex appeal has, like the bouquet of a fine wine, increased with age. I would attribute that to the knowledge and confidence you have aquired in your journey of learning about the natural man woman relationship. I love your shows. Keep it up.

  4. Hashirama Senju

    March 3, 2020 8:43 pm

    Marni, I can feel the sexual tension between us whenever I watch your videos.

    You're so naughty.😍

  5. SheffRudyTKE

    March 3, 2020 8:48 pm

    So I was about to "like" your comment when I came to your defense. It looks like our perp deleted his comment. I guess he got the messages that when you mess with Marni you better be ready for a fight.
    Keep up the amazing content Marni

  6. Alex Piteo

    March 3, 2020 8:59 pm

    One of the questions I have, Marni, is with your videos do you have to follow all your advice in order-say, from beginning to now-or can you just follow whichever advice from whichever video in YOUR library? Just want to know so I won't get too ahead or behind on your videos/advice. Please let me know as soon as is best for you, Marni. Thanks.

  7. Pete's Vlogs

    March 3, 2020 9:24 pm

    BS! lies. If a woman is going to want you she's going to want you on her own free will not because you tell her psychological tricks.

  8. Bill Case

    March 3, 2020 10:06 pm

    Sorry Marni…usually I agree with you but I think I'd rather just tell the girl she looks hot…….but don't worry…your still my personal wing girl LOL


    March 3, 2020 10:17 pm

    Question ma'am. Would any of your techniques actually work on you in a real world dating scenario ? Getting to the point where this technique could be applied is the real issue. Women won't let you get to this point in the game. I've studied social interactions out in public. Whether it was in bars, clubs, or even the Mall. I keep a small note book with me to keep a running account of interactions between men and women. I've definitely notice the men with the appearance of a High Value Male, always do best with the initial interactions I've seen short, less attractive men, basically get shut down within seconds of their opening remarks. Couldn't tell you what was said. But the obligatory hand extension and name does come to mind from the actual body language. So I ask you. Does the short, balding, guy ever get to the point where YOU might actually learn anything about him ? Do you quickly judge him based on his physical characteristics ? His less than trendy choice of clothes ? His overall appearance of just another common guy ? I'm going to guess probably not. I'd surmise you have a physical appearance standard already firmly in place. So I ask you, do any of your videos ever actually come out and say. "If your not tall and good looking, your going to really struggle finding a woman." Your videos and the thousands of others produced for YouTube are all dependent on the fact the men haven't been honest enough with themselves. To realize that they aren't good looking and have a low, low Sexual Market Value. They keep this false hope that "Something in the videos is going to turn my dating life around and I will have a relationship with that High Value Female" All these Secrets, the insider girl knowledge, is just a way to spread false hope. I say this in the hope that men will realize that their own sense of self worth isn't based on your ability to interact and date women. Every man is worth something. Every man has something to offer the world and people around them. Make yourself better everyday. Better mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually. These things will give you true happiness and joy. If you work hard to master these aspects of your life. None of your efforts will ever be wasted. These four aspects of your life will give you 100% return. Who could ask for anything more. But this is just one man's opinion. So use this advice as needed.

  10. Sterling Lowery

    March 3, 2020 10:27 pm

    In the dating game, as soon as we leave, memories slowly fade, and new flirtations arise.

  11. Fraser Daniel

    March 3, 2020 11:48 pm

    Marni, I hate you. You never get to the point in your videos. If you want to know more about getting straight to the point, DM me 😉 😛

  12. Nick Scanlon

    March 3, 2020 11:55 pm

    Why should we take advice from a woman? Women lie and all women are different but the principal is the same…money talks and bonus points if you are chad or tyron…sandman told me never trust women…hes not wrong

  13. David McKenzie

    March 4, 2020 2:39 am

    Word is, if you play Marni's videos backward, you'll hear her tell you in that very seductive voice of hers, to "Like & Subscribe" ! Lol

  14. Jason Teichner

    March 4, 2020 4:32 am

    Marni, you're really great; so great that there are only 2 things I don't like about you… Great video, though 🙂

  15. Chuck

    March 4, 2020 4:39 am

    Its not called Tension loops, its called DRAMA! Women crave drama and want to make everything into a huge freaking problem, just like anything women touch. At least till it start affecting them so badly that people and men start to distance themselves from her. Girls are closer to Drama Queens/ Attention Who ores! That by the time a girl notices it, her drama life is a freaking living NIGHTMARE and she is a baggage train wreck that ALL men and other sane people run from!

  16. Anthony Cole

    March 4, 2020 5:40 am

    If I end up getting the exact conversation Marni just said I was gonna have,I’m gonna freak TF out!!!

  17. Arthur Lo

    March 4, 2020 10:56 am

    girl will never chase you if other guys already hitting her DMs on hardcore mode . only if you are super attractive or you have lot of this 💰💰

  18. Michael Costa

    March 4, 2020 1:41 pm

    why all the cuts in this video? -I don't remember this in previous videos – it's distracting.

  19. Tom Castner

    March 4, 2020 3:38 pm

    This is totally for young girls. This BS would never work on mature or smart women…except the bantering, that is pretty solid and I’ve been married for 20 years (my wife and I still banter). It works.

  20. Matt Mc

    March 4, 2020 4:37 pm

    Banter is a great tool. It shows your not a "mr nice guy". It shows you have a sense of humor and confidence. It's fun and makes a moment for you both. I have noticed in every video you say "here is the secret to…" followed by a different subject then "heres how too…" cleverly followed by quick credits making us wait a few more seconds for info but not minding either. Brilliant

  21. Pushpul D'Silva aka Honky-Tonk Man

    March 4, 2020 5:11 pm

    Dear Marni, You have the most beautiful face on Earth, so, May I please have the permission to give you the French Kiss of Your life… that you have never had be4…

  22. Pushpul D'Silva aka Honky-Tonk Man

    March 4, 2020 5:23 pm

    Dear Marni, Cud You do a complete data transfer from your brain onto my brain, so that I can happily, seduce and fuck every woman that I like to Glory

  23. Alex Platinum Dating

    March 4, 2020 7:04 pm

    Leading, being playful, challenging and keeping yourself in the girls mind. Great stuff, Marni. 👌

  24. CanyonFox45 This is my good side Hah!

    March 5, 2020 2:04 am

    There are way too many "Ladies" unwilling to share with you that they have 1 or all of the STD's!which they contracted from some pervert who was 1 to2 decades older than they were at 18! This is the worst time in history to just roll the dice!passions, no matter how HOT! won't neutralize her disease's she wants to pass on to you,anchoring you to her!Not worth it fella's.way to close to 20% of our countrymen are stuck living with an STD!they won't tell you before it's too late!Think with your big head

  25. Matthew Westbrook

    March 5, 2020 3:33 am

    I'm thinking it's a waste of time these days, divorce rate 60%, alimony, child support, false accusations #metoo. Yeah nah fuck that, ……I will just go to the gym, snowboarding.

  26. SpartanG

    March 5, 2020 4:23 am

    More hoops and loops and games when girls don't reciprocate that energy. If you have to go outta your way to please her and she's not doing anything, she's not for you, unfortunately, these are most girls nowadays and it's thirsty simp men that give into them and pump up their egos since they're so insecure.

    Fellas, take this video with a grain of salt since if you're not attractive, you won't even get in the door to use these "techniques." Stay redpilled, focus on your self improvement and let the girls come to you. Yes, this works…

  27. Peter Gazer

    March 5, 2020 6:21 am

    I like the elbow trick. "Is that something on your elbow? " flip her arm around in an attempt to show her while you tap the palm of her hand against your nuts

  28. rstallings69

    March 5, 2020 7:04 am

    Ok the video kinda implied the 5 min video was free – all there was is a 1:38 intro with no useful information- also you didnt create it but your friend – just saying it's bad business to mislead- that being said I like the channel

  29. Hap Hoppy

    March 5, 2020 8:24 am

    (Everyone please like this cause I can’t find a video on this.) Please make a video on my problem. The girls I tend to attract they tend to get very confortable with me with a very short period of time. For example in college I had a math partner that I never even thought of hitting on her. Then I had a bad day at work and I snapchat her about my emotional problems. The next day she got me to play with her panties in the middle of class. She bit her lip while she stared at me and I looked around to make sure no one was looking for a long time. Once I was done she instantly looked away from me and when class was over she ran out. She instantly regretted what happen. This isn’t an isolated case either this kind if stuff has happen countless times. I see it as a curse cause I can never be in a long term relationship this way. What am I doing that make women get super confortable with me and then get super turn off?

  30. Baron Of Hair

    March 5, 2020 12:20 pm

    No objections to being hypnotized into doing something, Marni. Provided, of course, that we're being hypnotized into doing you first and foremost!!!

  31. James Dillard

    March 5, 2020 3:31 pm

    I have this problem. Few months ago I was having sex with my wife but she push me off her and told me it doesn't feel good anymore. But last night she ask me why I haven't tired to have sex with her i don't know what to tell her because I scared because I worried she would push me off her so I didn't want to sex with her anymore.

  32. libtards suck

    March 5, 2020 3:56 pm

    Used the words, long, deep, hard ,moist, wet ,slippery, warm in conversation, get them wet and horny, then friend zone them

  33. Joshua Lawrence

    March 5, 2020 3:59 pm

    This doesn’t work only thing that works with younger women is money or what you can do for them, if you don’t have that good luck 👍🏽 this works on women in the age range 19-30ish anything past 30 may work, anything past 33 flirting may work and mature women I don’t know what works usually guys in the police force or any line of dangerous work they go for! But all this I said may vary but mostly it works

  34. padraigh keogh

    March 5, 2020 4:31 pm

    Hi Marni. What does it mean when women greet a guy with "Hey Mister"? Getting it alot for a while.

  35. Devon Cripsy

    March 5, 2020 4:59 pm

    Marni, I have a question. Met this girl I really like. We work together. I walk her out to her car every night. We'll be talking and I'll just be kinda hanging out, but then I feel her looking dead at me, like unflinching tractor beam. I got your course that say eye contact is a big deal, so I just hold contact, but then she almost immediately smiles and says, "What?" as if I was the one that started it. This has never happened to me before, so I think the course is working, but I don't know how to respond when she does that. Please help.

  36. Abraham Ruiz

    March 6, 2020 12:36 am

    Is it possible to be too good looking to get a good gf? I'm 6'4 – 6-5, 225 lbs, built like an Adonis, good big volumous hair, hairline is still intact lol, decent teeth, ok salsa dancer, my dinero is on point, fluent in 4 languages, working on 5th, etc and etc lol…I'm told that I'm too intimidating lol….the critics will say that I'm too into myself, so I'm sorry for trying to be great in all aspects of life.

  37. gypsydanger

    March 6, 2020 4:01 am

    Watching your videos have made me realize how much of a dumbass I am when it comes to talking to women. I make ALL the mistakes and say ALL the wrong things fml. Thanks and keep 'em coming!

  38. Justin C

    March 6, 2020 6:32 am

    I think this would only work if you have initial attraction/youre good looking but it is good advice regardless

    Anything to create tension or different emotions and youll stand out like a sore thumb compared to other men

    Men are usually too logical

  39. Revelacion Humana

    March 7, 2020 2:29 pm

    This video teaches you how to prey on a woman’s insecurities. If you need this to get the attention and approval of a woman you got bigger problems.


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